For parents or caretakers of young children aged between 2 and 10
The Cooperation Toolkit
7 Simple & Easy Parenting Tools For Getting Young Kids To Listen...Without Yelling, Nagging, or Frustrations
After interviewing over 30 of the world’s leading parenting experts, I’ve uncovered 7 incredibly simple, research-backed tools that make getting your kids to cooperate so much easier and funner!
These tools don’t just help eliminate tantrums and power struggles—they strengthen the connection you share with your child, creating harmony in your home.
Imagine if you knew what to say and do to get your kids to cooperate with you...without having to get mad, shout at them, or use threats or nagging.
Just imagine how great parenting would be if you knew how to turn these stressful moments into opportunities for fun and joy - turning struggles and frustration into positive connection and teaching.
Cooperation Tool #1: Bucket Filling Time

It is important to understand that one of the biggest reasons that your children refuse to listen or pick pointless fights with you is because they want more attention or control in their lives.
Bucket Filling Time is a simple daily bonding ritual that helps prevent power struggles and negative attention seeking behavior by proactively filling your child's needs for attention and control (we call these the "attention and control buckets").
By implementing this daily ritual, you build a stronger bond with your child, and they start to see you as safe, dependable, and loving...not just a source of discipline.
This means that they start listening to you because they trust you, not because they fear you! Not only does getting cooperation out of trust feel much better for you and your child, but it is also much less stressful and sustainable long-term.
In this module, you'll discover:
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How to parent smarter instead of harder - 4 simple steps to supercharge your existing routine into powerful connection moments...without needing to find extra time or energy.
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The "Name It to Claim It" rule - the most important key to turn the time that you already spend with your child into powerful "bucket-filling time" - just taking this one simple and easy step instantly makes your child value the time you spend with them more and helps them feel loved, validated, and recognized.
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How to let your child feel in control when you spend time with them - meaning they won't feel that need to "act out" or fight you over pointless issues - without letting them take over.
Cooperation Tool #2: The One Minute Miracle

The One Minute Miracle technique is a great way to get cooperation from your kids while also building your connection and showing them that you care about what is important to them.
This tool works especially well for "transitions," like getting your kids to stop playing and come eat dinner.
It takes only 1 minute, but doing it before asking your child to cooperate can save you so much frustration! In fact, it turns normally frustrating times like bedtimes, meals, and transitions into positive connection building, bonding moments.
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How to have less yelling and conflict during daily routines like mealtimes or bedtime and foster genuine cooperation through connection rather than commands. It is amazing how much calmer, in control, and more confident in your parenting this simple technique can help you feel.
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How to become the positive, firm, and calm parent you want to be by learning how to assert your needs calmly and without conflict, and avoid triggering resistance in your child when you need them to cooperate.
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The 3 simple steps of the One Minute Miracle technique, and why each step is so critical for building the trust with your child that is required for getting them to cooperate without resistance.
Cooperation Tool #3: Watch, Wait, Wonder

"Watch, Wait, Wonder" is a simple, two-step technique to create deeper connections with your child while setting the foundation for easier cooperation, deeper understanding, and stronger relationships.
Using this technique is a great way to get your child to open up and share things from their life with you.
When you show them that you are curious about what they are interested in, they start feeling like you are on their side and really interested in helping them. This makes getting them to cooperate with you much easier, because they feel that they can trust you and that you have their best interests at heart.
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How to use this simple 3 step process to help your child build their communication skills, teach them to articulate their thoughts and feelings, and encourage them to express themselves freely and trust you with their thoughts, reducing misunderstandings, frustrations, and power struggles in the future.
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How to start child-driven conversations that gives your child the sense of control that they need, leaving you feeling calmer and less frustrated as a parent while helping your child feel empowered and respected. This also helps a lot to avoid power struggles over small, unimportant things.
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4 powerful prompts you can use to start your child talking about their interests and sharing what's important to them - giving you insight into what excites, motivates, or stresses them — which helps you get through to them more easily, and builds a family tradition of open sharing that follows your child into their teen years.
Cooperation Tool #4: Take The Pressure Off

The Take the Pressure Off technique is a powerful but simple approach to get better cooperation from your child - without resorting to nagging, threats, or yelling.
Even better, it helps your children develop a sense of responsibility and pride in their own abilities, making getting cooperation from them even easier in the future.
I love this technique, because it gets my kids to think for themselves, take responsibility, and cooperate with me without me having to yell, nag, or threaten. I'm always amazed at what my kids are capable of when I give them the opportunity to take responsibility.
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Why stepping back from being overly controlling when you ask your child to do something can actually make it much easier for your child to cooperate with you.
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The 3 steps to follow when your child is showing resistance to doing something you need them to do (like clean up their blocks after playing) - doing this instead of getting mad or pressuring them builds up your child's self confidence, and teaches them to take responsibility instead of always relying on you to tell them what to do.
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The real reason that small issues turn into big power struggles, and how to give your child a chance to cooperate without feeling like they've "lost."
Cooperation Tool #5: Detach to let your child think
If you frequently get into power struggles with your kids over small, trivial things (like what color sweater they should wear), then this technique will change your life.
This tool encourages your child to think rather than react, helping them make better decisions without yelling or frustration.
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Why doing less can give you better results when it comes to getting your kids to cooperate (learning this mindset will do wonders to avoid being dragged into emotional power struggles with your child over trivial things, saving your energy and focus for more meaningful interactions).
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A simple, 2 word phrase to use to instantly "detach" yourself and encourage your child to think about the natural consequences of their actions, allowing you to stay in control while giving your child the space to develop their own critical thinking and problem-solving skills.
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How to create space for your child to solve their own problems, helping them build maturity and responsibility and raising them to be self-reliant and equipped to deal with life's challenges with confidence.
Cooperation Tool #6: Talking Objects

This is a really simple but very powerful cooperation tool, because it allows you to "tap" into your child’s natural way of engaging, making them far more likely to listen and follow through.
When you do this, you'll find that instead of having to drag your kids through the day kicking and screaming, they actually want to cooperate with you, because instead of building resistance by telling them what to do, this tool helps you turn cooperation into something fun and exciting by engaging their imagination.
And this actually makes parenting so much more fun, because instead of having to constantly nag or get mad, you get to play fun games with your kids, turning frustrating moments into positive opportunities for connecting with them.
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A simple trick you can use anytime for getting little kids to cooperate (no nagging needed!) - doing this often not only makes your day go smoother, but it also creates joy and laughter during otherwise stressful moments, leaving you feeling more relaxed and connected with your child.
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A easy way to get your kids to eat their veggies willingly (and even enthusiastically) - turn meal times into a space for bonding, laughter, and no power struggles.
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A fun "Sports Commentary" game you can use anytime your kids are having trouble cooperating or following a rule. This is a great way to guide your kids towards good behavior without having to get angry, frustrated, or use threats or nagging.
Cooperation Tool #7: The Magic of Micro Routines
One of the easiest ways to reduce resistance and create smoother transitions in your daily routine is to prepare your child in advance for what is happening.
When kids can anticipate what to expect - what the expectations are for a specific situation - then they become much more cooperative. When they know what is coming up, and what is expected of them, your kids will be much more likely to cooperate and much less likely to have meltdowns, tantrums, and power struggles.
Using Micro Routines can make your day go so much smoother, and they work especially well to ease transitions and daily tasks like going to (and leaving) the park, brushing their teeth, or getting ready for bed.
Using Micro Routines means that your kids know what to expect, meaning you have to spend less time begging, bribing, or yelling, and turning your day from chaotic into calm. They not only help your children to cooperate, but also helps you plan your day and activities.
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How to turn your home into a calmer, more cooperative space by using Anticipation to help your kids feel secure and less anxious.
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How to plan out trips and activities in a way that kids feel engaged and involved, making it much easier to get them to transition between activities or go home when you need them to go home without having to nag or get angry.
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How to boost your child's cooperation by implementing predictable routines that eliminate uncertainty, allowing you to enjoy smoother mornings and evenings, giving your more time for meaningful family moments instead of constant power struggles.
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How to empower your child to complete tasks independently without constant reminders...creating more breathing room for you during the day, while also raising a confident, capable, and responsible child.
Start Building A Better Relationship With Your Kids Today!
Here's the thing: I'm a parent too, and I know parents don't have a lot of time to read books and learn lots of theories.
I want you to see results immediately, so we've worked really hard to make these tools as simple and easy to use as possible. Each tool is self-contained, and you can start seeing results immediately.
✅ 7 days, 15 minutes each day
Once you sign up, you'll receive a email each day for the next 7 days.
Each day, I'll share one of the parenting tools, along with a short story or example about how the technique can help you in your parenting.
I've included simple to follow, step-by-step guides on how to best implement each parenting tools I share with you, as well as bonus tips and reflection questions you can work on if you want even better results.
✅ Access the entire toolkit from day one
In addition to receiving the daily emails for the next 7 days, I'll also send you a PDF containing the entire toolkit. This means you will have instant access to the entire toolkit, in addition to receiving the daily guided email.
✅ Quick and easy
I intentionally designed this toolkit to give you results as soon as possible. There is no fluff, only results.
Every day, you'll receive an easy-to-implement technique that you can try with your kids immediately, to experience firsthand how these techniques can foster more listening, deeper connection, and a more rewarding family life.
✅ Proven techniques from parenting experts
This toolkit contains insights from leading parenting experts, including family psychologists, best-selling parenting authors, ex-teachers, and parenting coaches, all who have dedicated their lives to understanding child behavior and helping parents.
You'll discover their best parenting strategies for getting kids to cooperate.
Strategies that have been tested and proven to help parents and children create better relationships and healthy families, with less frustration and more love and joy.
✅ Focus on building long term connection
While the techniques you'll learn in this course are all easy to implement and quick to see results, they are not quick-fixes.
Rather than relying on manipulation, fear, or punishment, these methods focus on building a strong emotional connection with your child based on trust.
By creating mutual respect and understanding using these parenting tools, better, long-term cooperation comes naturally.
✅ Tailored for real life
These experts that shared these techniques with me use them daily to help their clients, and my husband and I have used these techniques with our own kids with great success.
They are flexible and adaptable to any family situation and different personalities.
How To Get Access To The Cooperation Toolkit
So, you're probably wondering just how much all of this costs.
Well, when we sat down to decide what to charge for this course, we started by looking at what it would cost to consult with just one of these experts for an hour.
I was shocked to discover that some of these experts charge up to $350 an hour to meet with them...if you can get a space at all!
So, you could pay several hundred dollars to consult with one of these experts...but then you'd only get perspective and advice from one person.
With this course, you get the best, tested, and proven parenting techniques for getting kids to listen from seven different experts.
Not only that, but these techniques have been vetted and chosen from the best parenting techniques of more than 30 experts I interviewed for this project!
Comparing it with what you would pay for just one consultation with a parenting coach, we initially planned to charge $200 for this course, because I truly believe that the information I share can have such a big, life-changing impact on your family life.
Just imagine how much easier and more fun you're life would be if you knew how to prevent power struggles and deal with tantrums.
Just imagine if you knew how to turn stressful situations with your kids into positive opportunities for growth and connection.
How much would it be worth to just have one reliable technique for getting your kids to cooperate without having to lose your cool, yell and shout, and then end up feeling terrible afterwards?
How much would it be worth to have seven different techniques in your parenting toolbox, techniques that are simple enough to learn in 15 minutes but that you can use for the rest of your life to improve your relationship with your kids, and turn parenting into the joyful, fun experience you always dreamed it would be?
But...after a long discussion with my husband, we realized that it is much more important to share this information with as many parents as we can. We decided that we would rather charge as little as possible, because we believe that this information can truly change lives for the better.
That's why we have decided to make this entire toolkit available for only:
$47
For a one-time payment of $47, you get:
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Immediate download of the entire toolkit, allowing you to access any of the information right now.
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7 daily emails sharing case studies and examples of how you can use the tools to get your kids to cooperate and improve your relationship with them.
Over the years I've bought so many parenting books and courses, only to often end up not even completing them because I get busy and there is just so much information out there.
Because of this, we've worked really hard to make this a course that you actually end up using. I know you are busy, and you don't have much extra time, so this course is built so that all you need is 10 to 15 minutes a day to make big improvements in your life.
Still have questions?
Immediate results
This toolkit is not about sharing complex theories, just straightforward, actionable parenting tools that you can implement right away.
You'll see improvements immediately as you apply these techniques to your daily parenting life.
My 60 Day Unconditional Guarantee

Well, why not take the next 60 days to review these tools.
Go through the entire toolkit once, or twice, or even three times. Take action each day, and implement a few of the techniques in your life.
Then, if you don't absolutely feel and see a difference in the way your kids respond to you, in how easy it is to get them to cooperate, just send me an email to [email protected], or reply to any email I've sent you, and I'll refund 100% of the price you paid.
You don't have to provide any reasons. There are absolutely no conditions on this guarantee. All I ask is that you do your best to at least try one or two of the technique, because I really want you to succeed.
That's it. There is simply no reason not to take advantage of this opportunity. There is no risk to you, only the upside of finally having the type of family you always wanted to have.
Bonus: What if 24 parenting experts each gave you their single best tip for getting your kids to listen to you?

Well, you're in luck.
Because as an additional bonus, I'm also including my book, How To Get Kids To Listen, as a free bonus!
In this ebook, you'll get transcripts of short interviews I did with some of the world's leading parenting experts.
You'll discover many short, powerful strategies and tactics to help get your kids to listen and cooperate without yelling or shouting.
Each chapter features a 10-minute interview, in which a parenting expert shares their single best parenting secret, and shows you exactly how to use it with your children. Each chapter also includes a list of actions that you can take right now in order to implement the techniques shared in the interview.
For example, you'll discover:
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How to teach your child to acknowledge and manage their emotions, while helping them solve their own problems (Dr Rosina McAlpine, award winning educator and author)
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Dr Ross Greene (a clinical psychologist and best-selling author of Raising Human Beings and The Explosive Child) teaches how to solve problems with kids instead of trying to fix their behavior
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Where to start to help your child feel heard, seen and understood (Dr Heather Wittenberg, practicing child psychologist and owner of BabyShrink.com)
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How to use the “Playfulness Mindset” to help your children enjoy cooperating and listening (Karen Thurm Safran, educator and author of "Parenting - Let’s Make a Game of It")
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Heather Lindsay, a parenting coach and author of My Big Emotions, explains how to understand your child's preferred communication style, and how to talk to kids in a way that makes it much more likely that they will hear you and listen to you.
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How to use the “C.A.L.M. Technique” to turn your language and words into “medicine” that calms your child and helps them cooperate (Jennifer Kolari, a child and family therapist, one of the US’s leading parenting experts, a highly sought-after international speaker, and the founder of Connected Parenting)
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How to create a “win-win solution” when dealing with your children (Sarah Rosensweet, peaceful parenting coach and host of the top-rated parenting podcast, The Peaceful Parenting Podcast)
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The 4 steps to getting your kids to listen without yelling (Lisa Smith, parenting coach, best-selling author of "The Angry Parent")
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Why hugging your child when they misbehave is important if you want them to listen to you (Judy Arnall, author, founder of Attachment Parenting Canada, and a brain and child development specialist)
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What it really means when you feel like your children aren’t listening to you (Anna Seewald, parenting author, speaker, and podcast host)
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From Jessie Buttons (international nanny and parenting coach), you'll learn how to identify the Nature of your child...and how understanding the nature of your child can help you to motivate them and prevent clashes and fights.
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Why kids will listen to you if you listen to them (Nathan Wallis, neuroscience trainer and educator)
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How to use “Pairing” to intentionally reconnect with your child to make it more likely that they will cooperate with you (Dr. Beth Trammell, licensed psychologist, author, and speaker)
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What it really means when your child is not cooperating, and how to help build your child’s emotional competence and capacity by becoming a “stress detective” (Dr Jean Clinton, child psychologist and clinical professor of psychiatry and behavioral neurosciences)
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Shirley Pastiroff (author of The Mindful Parent - How to Stay Sane, Stay Calm and Stay Connected to Your Kids) shares how to notice your emotions and stay calm when your kids upset you, and why that makes it much easier to get kids to cooperate.
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Dr. Jenny Michaelson (PhD, PCI Certified Parent Coach®, mother of two, and founder of True North Parent Coaching) teaches practical techniques for getting your child to stop playing and come eat dinner (and any other difficult transitions you might be struggling with).
This is the book that started it all, and the parenting guidance and advice included in this book is truly golden and has made such a big impact on my life and the life of others.
Here's some of the feedback that I've gotten from other parents who have read this book:
There's so many great tips from child behaviour experts in this book, I can actually not believe it is free. My child keeps me on my toes, but I've used some of the strategies and have found them useful. It is things that just would not have occurred to me if I didn't read the help. I love that the book has given me fresh perspective and a little bit of extra courage for those times my preschooler is having a very off day. This is definitely a book every parent should read!
M. van der Westhuizen, Netherlands
Sue and Matt have put together a fantastic collection of interviews with parenting experts who share a range of helpful strategies to help with getting children to cooperate in the challenges of everyday life. I particularly like that they use scenarios with their own children to illustrate how best to use these strategies. The outcome of using these tools can only enhance the respect and connection we have with our kids.
D. Kuoch, New Zealand
I've decided to include this book as a FREE bonus if you purchase this course today.
Limited Time Offer To New Newsletter Subscribers Only
As a new subscriber to my newsletter, I wanted to do something special for you.
So, until DATE, you can get access to The Cooperation Toolkit: 7 Simple & Easy Techniques For Getting Kids To Listen for only $27.
That's less than $1 a day over the next month to gain lifetime access to:
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Immediate download of the entire toolkit, allowing you to access any of the information right now.
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7 daily emails sharing case studies and examples of how I used the techniques to get my kids to cooperate and improve my relationship with them, along with daily actions that you can take to make cooperation easier.
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BONUS: Free download of my book, How To Get Kids To Listen, containing short, impactful interviews with parenting experts from around the world, all focusing on sharing their best techniques for getting kids to cooperate without needing to get mad, yell, or nag.
So, the way I see it you have two choices:
Option One - you can decide to go on the way you've always done things. Maybe try to take some of the lessons I've shared on this page, but try to figure out things on your own.
This might work for you, but the truth is that if you keep doing things the same way, you'll very likely end up with the same results.
The unfortunate truth is that the way you are behaving now, your ability to get your kids to cooperate and work with you instead of against you, will not change unless you learn how to change.
The fact is that you only have a very short time to build the foundations of your relationship and connection with your child. Believe me, our kids grow up too quickly, and before you realize it they are teenagers with their own lives to live.
The best time to make a difference in their lives is right now...
Right now, while you still have as much time as possible to build those strong foundations and the deep connection and relationship of trust and respect.
That's why you also have Option Two - to take advantage of this no-risk opportunity to gain access my most powerful techniques for getting kids to cooperate while building a strong connection with them, setting the foundation for a great future relationship.
You can start right now to build that foundation of connection and trust with your kids by discovering how to turn stressful, frustrating parenting moments into positive opportunities for growth and connection.
There is absolutely no risk to you.
You have 60 days to review and try out the techniques.
In the unlikely event that you feel that it is not for you, simply send me an email, and I'll refund everything you paid, no questions asked and no hard feelings.
Purchase The Cooperation Toolkit: 7 Simple & Easy Techniques For Getting Kids To Listen for $27 today.
Frequently asked questions
Who is this toolkit for?
This toolkit is specifically for you if you take care of kids, especially young kids between 2 and 10. However, I'm sure that most of these techniques would work for you if you have older kids as well, or if you interact with kids in any way and you want to understand why they behave the way they do, and how you can connect better with them.
What is the time commitment?
You can put as much time as you want into this. I've designed the course to take no more than 10 or 15 minutes of your time each day. However, there are additional actions and reflection questions you can work through if you have more time, or if there is a specific technique that you want to get more value from.
What exactly do I get when I purchase this toolkit?
When you purchase this toolkit, you'll get lifetime access to an online website containing all of the information and resources that form part of the toolkit.
You can also download the entire toolkit in PDF format.
You will also receive a daily email for the next 7 days, with a short case study of how I used the technique with my kids, and then specific actions you can take implement the technique in your life.
Finally, you'll also get free instant, downloadable access to my book How To Get Kids To Listen, containing interviews I did with 25 of the world's leading parenting experts, featuring many short, powerful strategies and tactics to help get your kids to listen and cooperate without yelling or shouting.
Purchase The Cooperation Toolkit: 7 Simple & Easy Techniques For Getting Kids To Listen for $27 today.